I ran off. I’m sorry. One of the basic tenets of a good blog is an implicit contract between the writer and the reader that they will both show up. It’s been almost a month since I posted last, and that post was, ironically, a bold ask for readers to provide support. And then I left. I’m sorry. I got a little confused. I am six months into a new life and it started feeling a little dark. Most of you know, but to recap – I was laid off in January from a career I had spent 20 years…
Why is asking for help so hard…
I have always been passionate about sharing my favorite things: books, make-up, kitchen gadgets, etc. You can ask my mom (she is probably laughing just reading this). I am always telling her about some life changing book, tv show, gadget, etc and encouraging her to give it a try. Inevitably it will take quite some time until she will finally go try whatever it is I’ve been pitching and, lo and behold, she loves it. It’s become a running joke between us, because often (way more than once) she will finally try something when she has heard about it from…
We are more alike than we are different…
I asked for suggestions on where we go from here on my Facebook page and have had a few messages and conversations, so today I’m going to pull from those and answer a few spoken and unspoken questions. We’ll start with a simple one: How are you doing (after sharing so publicly)? Thanks for asking, I’m doing really well. It hasn’t been easy, but overall – it is good. I’ve received wonderful and encouraging comments and notes. Several of you have reached out to say how reading my story has helped you with your own. I know, for me, even…
Part Three: I live with Grace.
A teacher I respect recently talked about Light. Dark. Light. – There is light on the other side of darkness. I can attest to this, but you have to go through the dark to get there… (This is the third post of my journey – You can ready the first and second by clicking here.) After I changed my entire life – job, home, friends – I began to see a path to a better life. I am a firm believer that God guides us to people that can help us grow and become who he had in mind when…
Part two: And darker still….
Please read Part 1: The Inner Darkness for the first part of my story. I can share this today because – I am a beautiful and loved child of God, created in the very image of an incomprehensible Love that knows no bounds. I have been this child since the day I was born, and so have you. All my mistakes were not made prior to my becoming this child, they were made because I was unable to recognize who I already was. But now that I know, I wake every day to a banquet of Abundant Life that is…
Part One: The inner darkness
This is the first in a series of posts that will tell the secrets I carried for so long and the process I’ve gone through to heal. Before I even begin I want to thank my family for their unwavering support. In telling my secrets, I tell some of theirs as well. I’ve offered to edit on their behalf, but they have done nothing except love and support me. My mom, brother, step-dad, and my dad in spirit, have walked with me. My friends have shown up time and again. My faith in a loving God is not based on…